And now, for the dirt 
I am wearing ESPRIT jeans and blouse – available exclusive at Fashion Days, Atelier Eclat Pekin headband and Ana Morodan at Smiling Shoes heels
Photos by Mihai Dina
I always had a hard time on understanding this and I am still getting it in an aggressive kinda way. I truly believe in equality but my friends, that…that is an utopia.
Oh, you do not understand what I am referring to?
I am talking about being submissive in a relationship and letting your male partner think that he won. You know, those little situations when you just have to play dumb or positive or serene or try to say nothing or move on, try to attenuate the tensions so that serenity could again live among you?
My darlings, as much as I don`t want to accept it and I have serious doubts that I will accept it during the course of this life, that is the key to a harmonious relationship. Yes, men feel the uncontrollable need to hunt, to be treated like a superior, to lead. It`s in their genes. – I think I was created wrong, because I also feel those needs and I am a woman, everybody noticed the big tits, yes?
Fact is, you either accept this or you can choose a relationship with a puppet, or you focus on building an empire. Or something. And I hope our mind will find that something soon.
Behind every great man there`s a powerful woman? So damn true. But what I am slowly realizing is that woman is said to be powerful not because she is ruling instead of her husband but because she makes her husband think that He is the one ruling.
This essential lesson I am getting a hard time to learn is like a perfect pair of jeans. Once you find it, it will prove to be the most trusty partner in your style adventures forever or at least for a long, long time.
Building metaphors around your outfits is a new cool way for me to feel empowered when using fashion. As you know, I adore basics and I shop them without rest, always. Fashion Days proves to be a great Go To place for items that are becoming more and more adored in my wardrobe. I am glad that Esprit is again available in Romania through Fashion Days. This brand has such a high quality rank at affordable prices that is always proving to be a good investment. The metaphor? Once you learn the basics just use a pop of sparkling accessory aka attitude/wit/presence/vibe and the success is yours. But it`s the basics that make you a winner.
The theory is pretty simple – If a person to be read Man – wants for us to give him the power to feel that he won, just do that. It will give you power over that person – the logical conclusion.
Anetta Basic lesson and Basic jeansette
Comments
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livia
soooo true! so so true! 🙂
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daniela stroe
i love esprit! si fashiondays e super cool! am mare incredere in ei
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maxy
Behind every great man there`s a powerful woman !
YES YES YES!
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georgiana
bentita e absolut supeeeerba! Great Gatsby in 2014!
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ioana popa
cata dreptate ai, ana!
tinuta e foarte frumoasa
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Johanna Mars
lovely outfit! the headband is awesome!
have a great weekend!
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anca
de fiecare data dau clikc pe linkul de fashiondays, de fiecare data cumpar cate ceva :))
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karla o
the powerful woman story is sooo true! but don’t you think you revealed one of our very well kept secrets? :))
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miri
superb pulovarul!
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In time for fashion
I loove your headband! And regarding to the submissive problem, well, I don’t accept it either. I think that some women are just made to be submissive and the rest of us, oh, we struggle.:))
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jeansLOVER
I love grey jeans, I’m so glad they are back! and the way they look on you…very cool
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hortensia
manipularea e de ambele parti. sigur, nu va ganditi la vreo teorie a conspiratiei in cuplu, dar hai sa nu fim naivi. toata viata e mainipulare a diversilor oameni din jurul nostru
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Liza
red lipstick is definetly a part of you, no doubt about it
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sandra
am I looking at the perfect jeans here? must have them!
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SorINA
funny little Morodan 🙂 am aceeasi problema cu scaunele de bar
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roxy
feminine Morodan is really sexy, even in that chunky sweater
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magda stan
accesoriul este super!
bijuteriile eclat pekin sunt cu adevarat speciale -
fashionette
hmmm, hard topic today, but oh so true 🙂 go, girl!
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fashion_days_fan
fashion days are o selectie foarte buna de produse. din pacate pentru bugetul meu, verific site-ul la doua zile si nu stiu cum se face ca mai mereu gasesc cate ceva 🙂
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LuLu
looking great!
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andreea maria
love Esprit! jeansii sunt foarte faini
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Teodora Banu
problema asta a puterii e una eterna. dar si cand gasesti acel balance…the sweet life 🙂
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camelia
o tinuta simpla care arata atat de special. imi place mult!
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Ioana
Indeed darling, always a struggle to transform all this men-women desire to lead into a win-win situation. But sometimes it works, you just have to be smart 🙂
Amazing outfit! <3
Irina V
Mi-a mers la sufelt articolul asta… a rezonat asa de bine cu o bucatica din mine, multumesc! It feels good to know you’re not alone out there 🙂