Why Whimpering Can Sometimes Be Helpful For Your Relationship
This Smuggler shirt and a raid on the new Molecule F – where I found this tiny, tiny, TINYYYY Manokhi leather skirt – was enough to put together this kinky school girl outfit. I know, I know, the heels are Tha` Bomb. Hardot is killing it so cooool.
However, here`s my little introspection. I`m a feminist. Nope, I`m not just playing with this word. I Am. And I have reasons to state this. But this is not the matter at hand today.
Todayyyyy, I`m finally starting to understand the relationship game. Like, you know, you can`t just go home every night and ask to be always the ruler. Nope, the key is to let your partner rule sometimes. And learn to be a fragile woman. And this might prove the Hardest thing in the world for ladies like me. And it`s kinda frustrating that I can`t do that. #pebune
Oh well, recently, after hours of counseling from my lady friends, I finally got the game right. Or at least it feels like I`m starting to get it right.
Hardot heels – Wolford tights – Manokhi skirt available on Molecule F – Smuggler shirt – traditional basket
Photos by Silvia Postolatiev
Conclusions till now
- You may be Iron woman in our social and professional life but from time to time it`s effective to show your fragile and sensible side to your partner. You should let him protect you. There are benefits in this. Trust me.
- Stop thinking and showing him that you own the Holy Grail of Absolute Knowledge. Learn when to keep silent. Learn to act strategically and sometimes, if you feel like shouting. Just DON`T.
- If you make the first step to making up it does not mean that he thinks you are weak. And if he thinks this, it`s for the best anyway. It will make him want to protect and take care of you. You know. Like you sit and receive all kinds of gifts (like, you sit down, I`m going to make the dinner this evening and stuff like this- sure, besides the actual gifts 😉 ) and kind gestures.
- Whimpering – you know, that attitude you never played because it was making you look weak. Well, if you use it only when you need too. Attention, don`t become a winning bitch, like we ladies tend to do. But always remember that pouting like in a Dolce&Gabbana ad looks sexy and is, again, effective
Yes, effective is the word of the day. And for Boss Ladies like us, this should come first. Because it`s not about getting the job done. It`s about getting the job done in style, with poise, glam and always, always, always on time. That`s what makes us irresistible bitches witches.
Comments
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Edna
cheers to that, with the proper gin tonic 😉
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Alina Lazar
Ador tinutele de kinky school girl! DA, folosite rar si cu cap, mai ales dupa o varsta 🙂
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High Heels
Killer heels indeed
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pink fairy
Cool tiny, tiny, tiny outfit :))))
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KARLA
hmmm, knowing when NOT to shout…that is the hardest lesson for me :)) I will that in mind, though
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adriana catalina
read, learn, repeat :)) asta e scopul acestei postari, pentru majoritatea femeilor. subsemnata included :)))
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laura love
the new Molecule-F looks pretty cool
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mara
hello, Dolce&Gabbana girl ! yYou nailed it 😉
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Irina C.
Inelul asta e absolut spledid! Perfect, minunat, superb, to die for!
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Love for Fashion
Cool outfit and so not you, but sooo you :))
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carla
multumesc pentru sfaturi….ar trebui sa mi le pun pe frigider :))))))) mai ales aia cu if you feel like shouting. Just DON`T.
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Oana Cruceru
ador fustele din piele iar asta arata atat de vintage, e pur si simplu minunata
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PoisonYvY
A little kinky school girl outfit never killed nobody 😉 and it suits you perfectly
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Tania
pantofii sunt perfecti, pur si simplu perfecti
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CarinaK
Prietenele tale sunt cu siguranta mai intelepte decat ale mele :))) te-au sfatuit foaaaarte bine si e si mai bine ca poti sa aplici 😉
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andreea s
Aaaa, operatiunea “bosumflata” e preferata mea 😉 works every time
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Eli
M-am tot gandit si nu cred ca e bine ca ai facut publice aceste informatii atat de pretioase. The “enemy” le ar putea citi si mai rau- trimite si prietenilor lui si toate strategiile noastre ar fi deconspirate :)))))
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o.lalla
I recently discovered your blog and I
Love it ❤️PS: good point on this article and the kinky outfit comes in handy too :)))
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Patri
Si mai ales: gateste din cand in cand! Orice! Asta e piesa de rezistenta :))))) eu am fost regina doua saptamani dupa niste paste cu pesto din borcan :))
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cristina m
Cameleonul Ana Morodan- de la rochie de contesa la tinuta de scolarita sexy 😉
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Marga
Manokhi e super cool
PS: thanks for the tips 😉
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ana maria
da da daaaaaa, doamne ce rau e sa tipi si apoi sa-ti para rau. si nu pentru ca ai tipat, ci pentru ca nu te-ai putut abtine…ufff, greu :))
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Ileana Oprea
Love the kinky tiny skirt ❤️
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anka
you are the guru of relationships, I’m sure of it :)))
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Lilia
Una din tinutele mele preferate, fusta e foarte frumoasa
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PaulaMaria
Outfitul asta miroase a primavara si e adorabil
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ada
Cooking is also a big plus :))
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Lady Di
Men- can’t shout at them, can’t live without them 😉
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Lori
Whimpering work even after 15 years of relationship 😉
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Mona Ilie
:)))) e minunat articolul si so so sooo true!
Bookish Style
Fusta este preferata mea, dar outfitul per total e cam greu de purtat pe caldurile astea groaznice 😀